Touch by a man feels differently than by a woman. A male masseur has warmer hands and more strength. As a result, he exerts more pressure on your skin and underlying muscles. For that reason many men choose to be massaged by a man.
Am I straight if I want to be massaged by a man?
You are a heterosexual man and you sometimes want to be massaged by a man. Is that a sign that you might be gay? No, you don't have to. You will be amazed at the large number of heterosexual men who opt for a men's massage. They choose this because a man can massage more firmly. For these men, the massage itself is often more important than a possible climax. They want a professional massage, for example after exercise or during a stressful period.
How do I recognize my border and how do I make it known?
Before the massage I always ask about your limits: Do you have pain anywhere? Where would you rather not be touched? What kind of touch do you find unpleasant? For many straight men, the limits of touch are different than for gay men and that is only logical. As a masseur, I am constantly alert to whether someone feels comfortable or not. For example, you may not like it when the masseur's body comes too close. This can feel like a violation of your personal space. Always feel free to indicate your limits.
What if I experience erotic feelings during the massage?
The touch can arouse sexual energy and erotic feelings. Precisely because the touch from a man feels different than from your female partner, the massage can feel exciting. And sometimes you can have a spontaneous erection and/or orgasm. You don't have to think about it and you don't have to do anything with it. Just enjoy it! My massages are not aimed at climaxing, but your body can sometimes react unexpectedly. To experience pleasure in the presence of another man can be a special new experience. You don't have to be gay or bisexual for that.