Men's massage

Touch by a man feels differently than by a woman. A male masseur has warmer hands and more strength. As a result, he exerts more pressure on your skin and underlying muscles. For that reason many men choose to be massaged by a man.

Am I straight if I want to be massaged by a man?

You are a heterosexual man and you sometimes want to be massaged by a man. Is that a sign that you might be gay? No, you don't have to. You will be amazed at the large number of heterosexual men who opt for a men's massage. They choose this because a man can massage more firmly. For these men, the massage itself is often more important than a possible climax. They want a professional massage, for example after exercise or during a stressful period.

How do I recognize my border and how do I make it known?

Before the massage I always ask about your limits: Do you have pain anywhere? Where would you rather not be touched? What kind of touch do you find unpleasant? For many straight men, the limits of touch are different than for gay men and that is only logical. As a masseur, I am constantly alert to whether someone feels comfortable or not. For example, you may not like it when the masseur's body comes too close. This can feel like a violation of your personal space. Always feel free to indicate your limits.

What if I experience erotic feelings during the massage?

The touch can arouse sexual energy and erotic feelings. Precisely because the touch from a man feels different than from your female partner, the massage can feel exciting. And sometimes you can have a spontaneous erection and/or orgasm. You don't have to think about it and you don't have to do anything with it. Just enjoy it! My massages are not aimed at climaxing, but your body can sometimes react unexpectedly. To experience pleasure in the presence of another man can be a special new experience. You don't have to be gay or bisexual for that.

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Tijs

Tijs Breuer is 52 years old, a certified personal coach, body worker and masseur. Essence coaching is aimed at getting you to the core of who you really are. Tijs works with personal attention, touch and presence. It helps you to feel better about yourself.

15 thoughts about "Male massage"

  1. Last Friday I received a wonderful massage from Tijs.
    He knows how to hit the right pain points, physically and emotionally, in a very professional and involved way.
    I am still enjoying it.

    Thank you Tijs.

  2. Today I received a first classical relaxation massage from van Tijs for the first time. I am often massaged but this massage was really special. Tijs has golden hands, he is professional, dedicated, careful and attuned. Tijs is 'Value for money'. Really recommended!

  3. I was ready for a general massage and was curious what it would be like to be massaged by a man. The choice for Tijs was a good one. Upon entering, he put me at ease with a cup of tea. His touch immediately felt familiar, he quickly managed to find the places on my body where things were stuck. Everything started to flow again and I felt 20 years younger. It was also nice that there were no taboos, even the excitement was allowed to come and go through the fine touch. It is great to enjoy men's hands without immediately being labeled “gay”.

  4. Recently received a very nice massage from Tijs. Firm where it was needed, soft where you get tingling. Tijs explains what he does, feels good about what I want and is a friendly and dedicated professional. If you still have doubts: go!

  5. hello! I always received massages from women, but this time I thought: let's give it a try. The massage that Tijs gives is much more intense than what I was used to. Not just some gentle soft strokes, but really deep into my muscle tissue, pressing all the toxic waste and pain out of it. After some minutes I was getting used to the stronger, more masculine touch and I started to enjoy it. I must admit that, when he approached my butt, I was getting aroused as I felt little vibrations and sensations all over my pelvis. Which was strange for me to experience that with another man, being a heterosexual man. But I could allow myself just to enjoy it as I knew this was not going to be a sexual interaction. My whole week in The Netherlands became joyful after such a nice experience. I will definitely come back on my next business trip.

  6. hello i am also interested in a wonderful massage from tijs sounds like he is doing well how can i get in touch with him?
    greeting Jan

  7. Dear Tijs, I don't know exactly what relaxation massage is. I would like to undergo it and have a few questions: 1= How long does it take? 2= ​​How expensive is it? 3= I am already over 80. Is that a problem?
    Regards, Martin

    1. Dear Martin,
      A relaxation massage generally lasts 90 minutes, but can also be shorter (60 min, focused on the back only) or longer (120 min, full body massage. The costs are €100 (90 min), €70 (60 min) or €130 (120 minutes).
      A relaxation massage is not a problem for the elderly, it is healthy, among other things for improving blood circulation. Relaxation massage can also alleviate many physical ailments of old age. It stimulates joint function, improves flexibility and mobility of muscles and reduces arthritis. Because physical and mental tensions are reduced during a relaxation massage, you sleep better and the body can recover better during sleep. Because tensions that have built up in the muscles over the years decrease, the posture improves. This prevents wear of the intervertebral discs and spinal stenosis (narrowing of the spinal canal). In short, a relaxation massage is definitely recommended at your age. You are most welcome.

  8. Good morning, I just wanted to thank you for the pleasant introduction, the professional sports massage and the good aftercare. I had muscle pain for a day, but the following weekend I achieved a very good sports performance during a trail run in the woods. It was really very effective, and it's really great that you managed to combine the useful with the pleasant. At least I can come home with a good feeling.

  9. Thank you again for your energy and the passion of the massage. Really nice, especially because you know how to reassure a man who has little experience with massage or touch. I felt very relaxed with you. at times it was even divine. I felt “enlightened” when I cycled back home. Had trouble grounding again, like I was flying. It was nice meeting you man to man. I look forward to another massage from you.

  10. What a nice relaxing massage, so different from what I am used to with a massage by female masseurs. Now I understand why it's not a bad idea to have a man massage you. That firm, deep touch of the muscles is a real treat. I found being able to relax and surrender to an experienced masseur exciting and sometimes difficult. Apparently I still feel some kind of competitive element towards men. But Tijs was able to help me feel at ease, even when I felt some excitement coming, he indicated that my sexual energy can just be there and you don't have to do anything with it. Next time I'll see if I dare to go a step further with energetic massage. I'm curious about the intimacy and body-to-body contact.

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