Both women and men are welcome for breath and energy work at Neptunus Well-being. For a first introduction, as a woman you can choose the ritual Kum Nye Tantra or “Sensuality of the goddess”.
What is a "Sensuality of the Goddess" massage?
This is a sensual ritual, emphasizing the sensuality of your senses. Soft touch, fine scented oil and energy-generating massage of your pelvic area, among other things, bring you into contact with the goddess within yourself. I guide you in this through meditation and breathing that strengthens the opening of your senses. Gradually you experience more life energy flowing through your body. I let you consciously feel these energies. In this way you become increasingly connected to the divine aspect of your feminine body. Surrender to the moment brings you into contact with your feminine, receiving qualities.
What is Kum Nye Tantra?
Tantra originally emerged in India and Tibet from a religious need for more freedom within religion (both within Hinduism and Buddhism). It was an experiential theory in which personal divine experience is central instead of rules. Around 1700, various Buddhist tantra movements were brought together by Sangye Gyanatso. Based on the four major tantra schools (kagyu, nyingma, sakya and gelug), a new vision was developed, which was called Kun-nye.
What distinguishes Kum-Nye Tantra from modern tantra currents?
The Kum-Nye tantra focuses on life energy, which flows from the crown of your body and reaches your pelvis via your kundalini (vertebrae). This tranquil form of tantra is meditative, intimate and without taboos. Kum-Nye tantra focuses on prana, your life energy that provides tranquility, peace and balance. And therefore much less on sexual energy than other, more modern forms of tantra. In a Kum-Nye tantra massage, the masseur and the person being massaged are both naked, so that all shame and limitations can be released and there is an equal basis.
Why do you advise women to take a massage of 2 hours?
Many women need to let the massage last longer. Gradually you come more and more into peace and surrender. You come more into your feeling and then very nice things can happen.
Are the erogenous zones also massaged during an energetic massage?
If you feel completely comfortable with me and you enjoy letting your life energy flow, I can also massage your pelvic area as part of a massage. First your entire body is brought into relaxation. Before the erogenous area of your pelvis is touched, I will ask again what you like.
Especially with a Kum-Nye tantra massage, you can enter into a very deep serene peace during the massage, where you discover the silence within yourself. Then, on closer inspection, an (internal) pelvic massage may not be appropriate. Soft strokes along your groin ensure that you experience your subtle life energy.
How do you prevent my limits from being exceeded?
The reporting center for tantra abuse shows that some male tantra masseurs quickly massage too intimately and cross the boundary of the female client. I value a safe atmosphere in which you can be yourself completely. My intention is to tailor the massage to your needs. That is why we discuss in advance what your wishes and limits are. The boundaries you specify are an important starting point for the massage, to which I remain faithful. So we both stick to those principles, even if you feel different needs during the massage. In a subsequent treatment can then possibly be more intimate massages. You may not know very well where your boundary is and how far you want to go in receiving touch. In that case, I will always check how you feel during the massage and I also listen to body signals, which indicate that you are leaving your body or in your head.
Can a woman touch you as a masseur during an energetic massage?
I have no objection if you feel the need to hold my hand or leg during the massage. This can help you connect, feel safe and open up to my touch. But the purpose of the energetic massage is to fully enter into the surrender of receiving. You may feel your natural impulse to give something back, but you don't have to act on it right now. You are invited to experience what it is like, to do nothing and just receive. In general, I allow your touch if I notice that you are focusing on yourself. If I notice that you shift your attention to me as a masseur instead of focusing on your own body sensations, I will gently put your hand back and ask you to focus on yourself again.
This weekend I put on the naughty shoes and booked a tantra massage. Pretty exciting, do I dare to surrender to a man? Immediately upon entering I feel comfortable at Tijs. His touch is firm and soft at the same time. I take me to an inner and sensual journey and discover parts of my body that I do not know about. I descend ever deeper into my interior. Afterwards Tijs takes the time to hold me for a moment. I am a bit shaky, as if I let go of old chills, and feel secure on his lap. Now, three days later, I feel a soft tingling at the bottom of my body. I'll be back next month!
Yesterday I had a very intimate and exciting tantra massage. Tijs and I discussed in advance how far we wanted to go. I had few limits because I already have experience with tantra massages.
Tijs also likes firm massages. I had to get used to this. The body to body was very nice. This is very intimate but I enjoyed every minute. Tijs also always checked how I felt. I felt very comfortable with him.
Do you happen to have pictures of the people who do massages?
Dear Paulina, most of the photos on this website are my own. Unfortunately I haven't been able to find a female model for pictures yet. I am a small entrepreneur without staff (zzp-er) so there is not a whole team of masseurs to choose from. You are most welcome. You can also look at the "cooperation" page if you prefer to look for another masseur.
Yesterday I underwent an extensive tantra session of 2,5 hours at Tijs. I arrived quite tense but it seemed that all the tension slipped right off me from the first hug. The session worked out surprisingly well. Afterwards I felt as soft and light as a feather, reborn. The next day a little extra tired, I noticed that my emotions were a bit more on the surface. But no more that heaviness and stress of the past few weeks. Many thanks for the healing experience!
Thank you for the very nice massage today. I felt familiar with your calm appearance and soft masculinity. In your hands I was able to completely relax and let go of all thoughts. I noticed that my body and mind really needed to be touched so respectfully. That also made me emotional and I felt that you understood that well. Many men touched me in the past with a different intention, and there are still old wounds. You know better than anyone what a woman's body needs to relax and let go.
Whatever you call the massage, I felt full of energy, everything in my body seemed to flow and a slight vibration started that would not stop. Because you were very relaxed about it and didn't worry about it, I was able to make that happen. It was a unique experience, never experienced anything like it before. I would like to come back again because I notice that I have been able to release a lot of tension.
Groet
Aydin