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Day workshop in Utrecht – Taoist movement and massage for men

Do you want to feel your life energy and let it circulate through your body? In this workshop you will learn how to do this, while we practice Qi-gong and Taoist massage.

  • Date: Sunday March 10, 2023
  • Location: Awananda, Utrecht

In Taoism, movement and touch of the body are important.

  • Energy: Taoism views Chi as the universal life energy that flows through everything. Movement and touch activate the meridians and stimulate the flow of Qi in the body.
  • Yin and Yang: Sensual touch and balancing poses can promote the balance between yin and yang in the body.
  • Naturalness: Taoism emphasizes the importance of living in harmony with nature. Nudity and touching the whole body allows you to experience the beauty of your body as part of nature.

Qigong
On this day you will be introduced to Qi-gong, an ancient practice that has its origins in Taoism and traditional Chinese medicine. It involves a system of coordinated body movements, breathing exercises and meditation. Through controlled movements and breathing exercises, Qi Gong aims to regulate and strengthen the Qi flow in the body. From a standing position we make soft flowing movements, but also more dynamic movements, which sometimes resemble Tai-chi. Qigong exercises provide greater flexibility, strength, balance and coordination, but also provide feelings of relaxation and tranquility, greater self-awareness and a sense of connection with yourself and others.

Taoist massage
This form of massage combines Taoist principles with energetic techniques to cultivate and circulate your life energy. It is an integration of breathwork, full body massage and sensual touch, including genital touch. Centuries ago it was developed in the harems for the Chinese nobility. Since the kings had multiple wives, they had to restore the Qi flow in the body and activate the Ching (sexual energy). The energy flow in the body is restored by a soothing touch to sensual body parts, such as the penis, the anus and the pelvic floor. In the 80s, Joseph Cramer combined these traditions with insights from Western sexology, psychology and neurobiology. At the Body Electric School he added the “lingam massage” (penis massage). https://www.neptunus-wellbeing.nl/taoistische-massage/

What do we do?
During the morning we practice a number of energetic principles and movements of Qi-gong. This form of Taoist movement will be the perfect preparation for the Taoist massage.

Before the lunch break, we will do Taoist breathing and practice some sensual massage movements on the whole body. We also teach you some specific strokes for the genitals. In the afternoon we practice the Taoist massage in threesomes. Two men will give the third man a massage, after which we rotate.

Self-discovery and safety
This day can be a challenge, but also a journey of self-discovery and connection, with a focus on expanding consciousness, energy flow and liberation. You experience more spaciousness and sensuality. You get more life energy and feel more intense, with more intimacy and deeper pleasure. Together we provide a safe atmosphere in which everyone who identifies as male can be themselves, regardless of their body type, age or sexual orientation.

facilitator
Tijs Breuer is an experienced and certified (tantric) bodyworker, life coach, mindfulness teacher and masseur, specialized in deepening bodywork. He works with body awareness, loving attention, direct experience and energy work such as tantra. He gives weekly workshops for playful discovery to connect with yourself and others.
Bram gives us a Qi-gong instruction. He has been practicing martial arts such as judo and Tai Chi since his youth. In 2019 he completed the Qigong training and has since focused on studying and teaching Eclectic Qigong styles from a Taoist and Buddhist perspective. Daniel is our “space-holder” and he will monitor the space and assist when necessary.

Time
Door open, coffee, tea: 9:30 am
Start time: 10:00 a.m.
Lunch break: 13.00:13.00 PM (XNUMX p.m.)
End time: 18.00:18.00 PM (XNUMX:XNUMX PM)

Lunch – salad and potluck
There is a break between the morning and afternoon programs. We stay in the hall and have lunch together. A fresh, healthy salad will be prepared, but please bring your own prepared treats to share with the other participants.

Location
Awananda
Address: Kanaalweg 84A, 3533 HG Utrecht

Costs
Regular ticket €70. Under 35 years €55. Students / refugees €45
Tickets: https://www.neptunus-wellbeing.nl/nl/meetup-tickets
or buy it on Hipsy: https://hipsy.nl/neptunus-wellbeing
To ask? Tijs Breuer. Mobile phone: +31626174884.

Share your meditation experiences

Do you ever talk to others about your meditation experiences? Many people keep these experiences to themselves because they find it embarrassing to reveal that they meditate regularly. While it can be very useful to share those experiences with others.

Our brains are very good at storing unpleasant and anxious moments to protect us from danger. Putting into words what you experience during meditation can help to strengthen your consciousness. You train your brain to register your emotional world. And you ensure that, in addition to unpleasant and anxious moments, you can also remember pleasant moments better. It is also nice to read the experiences of others, as a source of inspiration and encouragement. Sharing meditation experiences with others can be helpful in several ways.

Some reasons why sharing experiences is useful:

  • It can help to deepen your meditation practice. Talking about your experiences can help you understand them better and integrate them into your daily life. You can also learn from the experiences of others, which can help you gain new insights.
  • It can give you support. Meditation can sometimes be challenging, especially when you're just starting out. It can be nice to talk to others who also meditate. They can support and motivate you.
  • It may inspire others to start meditating too. By sharing your positive experiences with meditation, you can help others discover its benefits.

Some examples of sharing meditation experiences:

  • If you experience certain thoughts or emotions while meditating, it can help to talk to someone about them. This person can help you understand your experiences and deal with any challenges.
  • If you have trouble concentrating while meditating, it may help to talk to someone who has more experience. This person can give you tips on how to improve your concentration.
  • If you're wondering whether meditation is right for you, it may help to talk to someone who is already doing it. This person can tell you about his or her experiences and help you make a decision.

Of course, it is not always necessary to share your meditation experiences with others. If you feel more comfortable keeping them to yourself, that's fine. But if you want to do it, there are many ways to do it. For example, you could talk to a friend or family member, attend a meditation group, or visit an online forum or blog.

What works best for you depends on your personal preferences and needs. At the bottom of this page you can (always) leave a message to share your experiences.

Day workshop The Rainbow Bridge

Yoga and massage workshop in Amsterdam by Christian & Tijs

  • Date: Sunday 25-02-2024
  • Location: De Roos, Amsterdam

Experience how meditation, yoga and massage can help you connect with your chakras and find more balance in your life. Tijs and Christian invite you to a day of self-discovery and connection.

The Rainbow Bridge
Indian traditions have recognized several subtle energy centers in the human body called chakras, they are often symbolized by the colors of the rainbow. The chakras help us bridge the gap between body and mind and they continually influence how we behave and feel. They are shaped by our lives and by the experiences we have.

During this day workshop you will learn to understand and influence the functioning of your chakras. This way you can take good care of yourself and become more balanced.

If you are considering participating in The Rainbow Bridge Retreat (May 18-25, Andalusia), this day is an opportunity to experience whether working with the chakras appeals to you. More information about the retreat: https://www.rainbow-retreat.eu

Yoga
We practice various aspects of yoga, including meditation, breathwork and yoga postures – and their effect on the functioning of our chakras. The yoga asanas are based on Vinyasa yoga and are done in a flowing sequence, guided by breathing. You will experience how nice it is to do exercises that give you more energy and relaxation at the same time.

massage
Through the energetic massage forms that we teach you, you will feel your chakras on a deeper level and how pleasant touch can be. We use a combination of energetic massage styles, inspired by Osho, such as Rebalancing, Alchemy of Touch Massage, Myofascial Energetic Release and Tantra. The massage opens your senses, but is not explicitly erotic or sexual.

Inclusive and safe
This is a clothing-optional body-positive workshop for all genders and anyone who is in good physical condition. Experience with yoga or massage is welcome, but not required. Contact exercises help you to open up in an atmosphere of trust and connection. There will be times when you can share your experiences. You are not forced to do anything and all touching is based on mutual consent. You will feel peaceful, safe, connected and peaceful afterwards.

Facilitators
Christian Wicke works as a general practitioner, yoga teacher in ashtanga and vinyasa yoga, and masseur. He likes to share his insights about and from yoga with others, in group lessons and 1-on-1 settings. In addition to teaching the practical aspects of yoga, he also enjoys studying and speaking about the philosophy of yoga and its implications for our daily lives.
Tijs Breuer is a life coach, mindfulness teacher and masseur, specialized in deepening bodywork. He works with body awareness, loving attention, direct experience and energy work such as tantra. He gives weekly workshops for playful discovery to connect with yourself and others.

Location
De Roos, spirituality and personal development
PC Hooftstraat 183
1071 BW Amsterdam
Website

Costs

  • Standard ticket: €85
  • Reduced rate (for students and refugees): €70
  • Couples: Discounted rate €160 for two people. Any kind of relationship, including friends with or without benefits, any combination of genders allowed.
  • Food: You can bring your own lunch. It is also possible to have an à la carte lunch in the Tea House. You can order the tea house menu view here

Assignment

  • Register to participate at Meetup
  • Buy your ticket below or here of op hippy.

What to bring
We recommend that you bring your own yoga mat, sarong/scarf, shorts, drinking bottle and towel.

More information
Tijs Breuer +31626174884
Christian Wicke +31610314713

Rainbow Retreat – Yoga and Massage week around the chakras in Spain

"The Rainbow Bridge"

18-25 May 2024
Vejer de la Frontera, Andalusia, Spain

A week to further discover yourself and relax.
Through meditation, yoga and massage we connect you with your subtle energy centers, your chakras.

Tijs and Christian invite you to a retreat in a beautiful place in southern Andalusia. The month of May is an ideal time for this: Everything grows and blooms, while you can be inspired by the beauty, silence and tranquility around you.

The Rainbow Bridge
Indian traditions have recognized several subtle energy centers in the human body, called chakras and symbolized by the colors of the rainbow. The chakras help us to bridge the gap between body and mind and continuously influence how we behave and feel. They are shaped by our life cycle and our experiences. During this week you will learn to better understand and influence the functioning of your chakras. This way you take good care of yourself and become more balanced.

Yoga and massage
We practice various aspects of yoga, including meditation, breathwork and yoga postures – and their effect on the functioning of our chakras. You experience how nice it is to do exercises that give you more energy or calm you down.
The energetic massage forms that we teach you let you feel your chakras on a deeper level and how pleasant touch can be. Contact exercises help with this, to open up in an atmosphere of trust and connection.

**La Casa**
La Cuartilla is situated on a sunny slope with distant sea views, surrounded by native woodlands, gardens and orchards. Within walking distance of the charming town of Vejer de la Frontera, a half-hour drive to the beautiful bays of the Costa de la Luz, nature is brought to life with Permaculture. Beautiful places have been created both indoors and outdoors to do exercises as a group or to be with yourself. The farmhouse, renovated with natural materials, is wonderfully light, spacious and cozy. Organic vegetables from our own garden and the immediate environment clean our body. We eat vegetarian and do not use alcohol or other stimulants.

Workshop Leading
Christian Wicke works as a general practitioner, yoga teacher in ashtanga and vinyasa yoga, and masseur. He likes to share his insights about and from yoga with others, in group lessons and 1-on-1 settings. In addition to teaching the practical aspects of yoga, he also enjoys studying and speaking about yoga philosophy and its implications for our daily lives.

Tijs Breuer is a life coach, mindfulness teacher and masseur, specialized in in-depth body work. He works with body awareness, loving attention, direct experience and energy work such as tantra. He gives weekly workshops for playful discovery to connect with yourself and others.

All genders are welcome at this retreat. Experience in yoga or massage is welcome, but not required.

Program

  • Saturday May 18, 2024
  • Arrival, introduction, dinner and evening program
  • Sunday to Friday
  • Every morning: meditation, breathwork and yoga asanas. After lunch: time for yourself. Afternoon massage clinic. Dinner and varied evening program.
  • Saturday May 25, 2024
  • Breakfast, final program and farewell

Costs

  • Standard rate: €980
  • Discounted rate for students and refugees: €800
  • All in: overnight stay, food and program.
  • Arrival: Own transport.

Location
Casa la Cuartilla, Vejer de la Frontera, Spain

Tickets
You can pay the full amount below or you can make a deposit. You must pay the remainder no later than 14 days in advance.

You can also purchase your ticket/deposit on hippy.

Or go to: https://www.neptunus-wellbeing.nl/en/meetup-tickets/

Regular sports massage helps

Exercise is healthy and regular exercise is very important to stay healthy. Do you exercise regularly? Sports massage is a valuable addition to your training. Because maintenance of your muscles is very important. And sports massage can help you perform even better. Purchase a sports massage bundle now with a discount.

Many athletes only think about massage after an injury, to promote recovery. But the overall condition of the muscles can be improved by regularly undergoing a massage. It benefits your health and well-being as an athlete and ensures visibly better sports performance.

Sports massage is much more than just relaxation. It is a targeted form of massage to improve blood circulation and flexibility of the muscles. Sports massage can also be aimed at treating specific problems that athletes may experience.

Sports massage is indispensable for anyone who practices sports at a high level. It is a powerful support for athletes of all levels. By regularly using sports massage you can increase your performance, reduce your risk of injury and achieve better focus and mental balance. 

Positive effects of a sports massage

Better Sports Performance: By regularly using sports massage you increase your performance. Your performance improves by promoting good blood circulation, the removal of waste products from the muscle tissues, faster recovery, reducing muscle tension and improving overall flexibility. You will notice that you have more energy, better performance and can continue to perform at a high level for longer.

Improved circulation: Sports massage stimulates blood circulation, which transports oxygen and nutrients to the muscles faster. This promotes recovery and reduces the risk of injuries.

Relief of muscle tension: Intensive training can lead to built-up tension in the muscles. Sports massage helps release this tension by loosening knots and adhesions, increasing flexibility and range of motion. And if you often suffer from cramps during or after exercise, this may mean that your muscles remain too tense. A massage ensures that the muscles relax after exercise.

Prevention of injuries: By regularly undergoing sports massage, you can significantly reduce the risk of injuries. By promoting the correct muscle balance and reducing tension, injuries can be prevented. This means less time on the sidelines and more time improving your skills.

Faster recovery: After an intensive training or competition, your muscles need time to recover. Sports massage accelerates this recovery process by removing waste products and reducing inflammation.

Stress relief: Competitions and training can be both physically and mentally demanding. Sports massage helps reduce stress and anxiety, allowing you to relax and improve your focus.

How does a sports massage work?

First we discuss your sports routine, your goals, any injuries, etc. Then your muscles are loosened and flexible in different directions. First, excess waste products are pressed out of the muscle with intermittent pressure. Then firm strokes are performed lengthwise with almond oil, making the tissues supple and relaxed. The muscle cells are then stimulated in the transverse direction so that they develop more strength. Then, without oil, kneading is performed in both directions, which ensures that the muscle cells can fully return to the relaxed position.

New: Sports massage bundle

Buy a bundle of 6 sports massages now for €60,00 per treatment instead of €70,00 per treatment. In addition, you will receive two mindfulness sessions (free) to further improve your sports performance with more inner peace. You can purchase the bundle below. Or ask for it when you come in for treatment.

Take part in the meditation challenge

This year I am organizing a meditation challenge in January. You are challenged to practice a short meditation three times a week. You can join at any time, participate and drop out whenever you want. There is no obligation whatsoever. The Meditation Challenge.

It's a month-long journey, organized by Tijs Breuer, that will help you cultivate a meaningful and sustainable mindfulness practice that you can easily integrate into your daily life and workday. Three times a week, for 15-20 minutes each, you can participate in short meditations focused on inner silence, relaxation, releasing stress and essential exercises in mindfulness and compassion.

The meditations are broadcast via Zoom. You will always receive a link to participate in the Zoom meeting.

You can also stream the meditations at a time that fits better into your daily schedule. You can also share your experiences afterwards in a message on this website.

Costs

The meditations are offered on a voluntary contribution basis, according to the principle of Damages. An average contribution of €10,00 per time is highly appreciated. This ensures that I get this mindfulnessactivities can offer.

Participation

Do you want to join? Then send an email to: Neptune Wellbeing or a text / app to: +31626174884.

Sangha

Do you need to connect with like-minded people? Would you like to meditate more regularly and share your experiences with others? Then one Sangha or meditation circle might be something for you. I am also part of a men's Sangha with 10-12 participants.

Together we give children in war zones a safe place

UPDATE – January 4, 2024 – In the month of December 2023, we donated more than €400,00 to War-CHILD. The proceeds from the workshops I gave that month - after deducting the rental costs of the space) - were transferred to this charity. In addition, some clients have donated an amount via this website. They received a gift voucher for a treatment as a thank you. My dear friend and colleague Christian Wicke has also donated part of the proceeds from his yoga workshops to War-CHILD. War-CHILD has now almost reached its target of €100.000,00.

Thanks to this help, War-CHILD can offer children in war a safe place. Here children learn to deal with their anger or stress through creative games and exercises. This allows them to process their fears, play and learn.

In this way they ensure that children feel safe again - and no longer live in their worst nightmare. Because every child deserves a safe place. Thanks for your support!

You can still donate to WARchild, but the payment link and December offer have been removed from this article. You can donate to WARchild via this link link.

Original post (December 2023)

December 1 2023 - Tijs Breuer will donate the proceeds from all workshops he gives in December 2023 to Warchild. Because we live in dark times. For children in Gaza, Ukraine or Sudan, every day is a harsh confrontation with reality.

WARchild offers children a safe place. Physically, but also in their heads. In safe places, children learn to deal with their anger or stress through creative games and exercises. Where they can process their fears, play and learn. In this way, together we ensure that children no longer live in their worst nightmare. #WARCHILD

Christmas offer (has expired): If you donated at least €50,00 to WARchild via my website, you received a €50,00 discount voucher for the next treatment.

Different use of words to avoid misunderstandings

Since opening my practice in 2015, I have always wanted to be as open and transparent as possible, says Tijs Breuer. I wanted to address themes that play a role in our personal lives, avoiding taboos and not judging based on my norms and values.

Unfortunately, I am forced to apply censorship to my own website. If I do not do this, my work will be seen as sex work and my practice will be seen in a bad light by certain organizations and authorities.

For example, on August 14, 2023, I received an email from Mollie, my Payment Service Provider: “We regret to inform you that we can no longer offer our payment services to your organization. We will close your Mollie account on October 13, 10. Unfortunately, during our periodic audit we have determined that we can no longer offer our payment services to your organization because your services fall outside our policy.” When pressed about the reason for this decision, they indicate that they cannot explain the specific reason. However, reference is made to a page that states: “We do not accept products and services that pose or could pose an unacceptable risk to Mollie's reputation.” In addition to prostitution, escort services and sex events, the list also mentions weapons, ammunition, narcotics, drugs and stolen products. I pointed out one more to them web page, in which I explain that tantra is not sex work, but they indicate that their decision remains the same.

Fortunately, my application with another Payment Service Provider – Stripe – was quickly accepted. But to prevent them from also searching the transcripts for terms such as "tantra" or "sacred intimacy", I have adjusted all terms as a precaution. I have also now screened my entire website and all other expressions for terms such as “tantra”, “sexuality” and “intimacy”. Instead, I now write about breath and energy work, sensuality and closeness.

Also in August 2023, I received an email from Marktplaats, more than a month after publication of my advertisement entitled “Professional deep tissue and relaxation massages”. Text of the advertisement: “Tijs Breuer from Neptunus Well-being offers various professional massages, from sports massage to deep tissue, from Swedish relaxation massage to Californian Esalen massage, from tantra to body work.”

The email from Marktplaats explains why my advertisement has been removed: “To keep the use of Marktplaats as simple and pleasant as possible, we have drawn up rules. This way we can keep the site as clean as possible. We have received a message that your advertisement does not meet our general terms and conditions. For that reason we have removed your advertisement.” Upon inquiry it appears that the word Tantra is associated with eroticism and is therefore not permitted.

Tantra has come into a bad light since #MeToo. Since its inception Tantra Abuse Reporting Center In October 2017, one hundred reports were received of inappropriate behavior by about sixty masseurs. This concerns serious inappropriate behavior, including 27 cases of rape. Several tantra masseurs were arrested by the police. Although tantra is becoming increasingly known among the general public and the sector has been professionalized with, among other things, the establishment of Tantrawijzer, tantra still retains a negative reputation.

So if you are wondering why it is no longer possible to book a tantra massage via my website, I can reassure you. I still give energetic massages. And you can still come to me for breathing and energy work. Old wine in new bags.