Most women have different wishes and needs for a massage than many men. Only strength and pressure is experienced as unpleasant. The alternation between firmness and soft touch often feels more pleasant for women.
Do I have to get completely out of the clothes?
You can keep your underwear on, but a bra is very awkward during a massage. Your body is covered with towels and if necessary. a blanket.
Although many women would like to be massaged by a man, they sometimes experience insecurity when getting naked. Sometimes you have to cross a barrier to give up your body and dare to let go. That makes sense, because not all men listen carefully to what you want. Personal attention creates an atmosphere of peace and trust, where there is plenty of time and attention for you. Through a loving and safe bed with deep respect for your femininity you can go down energetically and surrender to my hands.
Do you take into account my specific wishes?
Every massage is completely customized. As a masseur I agree to the special wishes of someone and I take into account the physique, the muscle mass and the skin structure. Many women feel hesitant to say what they like and do not like. Yet this is very important, so I will invite you during the session to find what you like or not. I can read your body (for example by feeling where there is tension and cold) but not reading your thoughts.
Together we look for the touch and treatment that suits you completely. So that you can fully relax in surrender and experience your beauty from within.
How do you deal with pain and emotions?
When you start to feel more, you feel pleasure but sometimes also emotions that were stored in your nerve cells. Through touch you can become aware of those old feelings of pain, shame or stress. At the same time you experience the warmth, loving attention and your radiant self, with which you can solve the pain and enjoy yourself even more.
You experience the connection with yourself and your environment. Everything is allowed. You will feel one again with your body and mind. The touch will make you feel your own body better, even in unknown places. in this way you take a journey to who you are deeply. After the massage you will experience more energy, relaxation and a better mood. You radiate like a child with a flush on your cheeks and you feel 10 years younger.
Tijs has let me experience that I can give energy to someone else with my body. I first came alone for a relaxing massage. But along the way he made me discover something new. That I can be valuable to someone else with my appearance and with my body, by letting my unique energy flow. He also let me experience what it's like to really open up to someone else. By breathing more deeply and surrendering to his hands, I was able to let the energy of another body enter me. Until now, energy was a vague concept to me, but now I have experienced first-hand what it can mean to allow life energy to flow between a man and a woman. I would also like to experience that with my partner, the sensation that a touch gives and from which I can connect with the other. And the peace that this brings about in me. A kind of coming home to my femininity.