Both women and men are welcome for breath and energy work at Neptunus Well-being. For a first introduction, as a woman you can choose the ritual Kum Nye Tantra or “Sensuality of the goddess”.
What is a "Sensuality of the Goddess" massage?
This is a sensual ritual, emphasizing the sensuality of your senses. Soft touch, fine scented oil and energy-generating massage of your pelvic area, among other things, bring you into contact with the goddess within yourself. I guide you in this through meditation and breathing that strengthens the opening of your senses. Gradually you experience more life energy flowing through your body. I let you consciously feel these energies. In this way you become increasingly connected to the divine aspect of your feminine body. Surrender to the moment brings you into contact with your feminine, receiving qualities.
What is Kum Nye Tantra?
Tantra originally emerged in India and Tibet from a religious need for more freedom within religion (both within Hinduism and Buddhism). It was an experiential theory in which personal divine experience is central instead of rules. Around 1700, various Buddhist tantra movements were brought together by Sangye Gyanatso. Based on the four major tantra schools (kagyu, nyingma, sakya and gelug), a new vision was developed, which was called Kun-nye.
What distinguishes Kum-Nye Tantra from modern tantra currents?
The Kum-Nye tantra focuses on life energy, which flows from the crown of your body and reaches your pelvis via your kundalini (vertebrae). This tranquil form of tantra is meditative, intimate and without taboos. Kum-Nye tantra focuses on prana, your life energy that provides tranquility, peace and balance. And therefore much less on sexual energy than other, more modern forms of tantra. In a Kum-Nye tantra massage, the masseur and the person being massaged are both naked, so that all shame and limitations can be released and there is an equal basis.
Why do you advise women to take a massage of 2 hours?
Many women need to let the massage last longer. Gradually you come more and more into peace and surrender. You come more into your feeling and then very nice things can happen.
Are the erogenous zones also massaged during an energetic massage?
If you feel completely comfortable with me and you enjoy letting your life energy flow, I can also massage your pelvic area as part of a massage. First your entire body is brought into relaxation. Before the erogenous area of your pelvis is touched, I will ask again what you like.
Especially with a Kum-Nye tantra massage, you can enter into a very deep serene peace during the massage, where you discover the silence within yourself. Then, on closer inspection, an (internal) pelvic massage may not be appropriate. Soft strokes along your groin ensure that you experience your subtle life energy.
How do you prevent my limits from being exceeded?
The reporting center for tantra abuse shows that some male tantra masseurs quickly massage too intimately and cross the boundary of the female client. I value a safe atmosphere in which you can be yourself completely. My intention is to tailor the massage to your needs. That is why we discuss in advance what your wishes and limits are. The boundaries you specify are an important starting point for the massage, to which I remain faithful. So we both stick to those principles, even if you feel different needs during the massage. In a subsequent treatment can then possibly be more intimate massages. You may not know very well where your boundary is and how far you want to go in receiving touch. In that case, I will always check how you feel during the massage and I also listen to body signals, which indicate that you are leaving your body or in your head.
Can a woman touch you as a masseur during an energetic massage?
I have no objection if you feel the need to hold my hand or leg during the massage. This can help you connect, feel safe and open up to my touch. But the purpose of the energetic massage is to fully enter into the surrender of receiving. You may feel your natural impulse to give something back, but you don't have to act on it right now. You are invited to experience what it is like, to do nothing and just receive. In general, I allow your touch if I notice that you are focusing on yourself. If I notice that you shift your attention to me as a masseur instead of focusing on your own body sensations, I will gently put your hand back and ask you to focus on yourself again.